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The Supreme Court Moves to Destroy Straight Marriage

   The right-wing has gone crazy since the Supreme Court sanctioned marriage equality in late June. What they’d been praying for didn’t come to pass – their angry, righteous, warrior deity didn’t intervene with fire and brimstone or floods and pestilence.
   Neither Pat Robertson’s senile predictions nor the other threats of impending Armageddon materialized. Chaos did not ensue and the heterosexual divorce rate has yet to spike.
    The American legal system moved on as if right-wing objections no longer mattered. And, believe me, that had to hurt the religious right-wing that’s been working for a generation to be taken seriously.
   Right-wingers responded as if not knowing what to say. But clearly their responses play to their bases, frightening them about everything that will now victimize them, including one pastor saying that Christians pastors will now be punished for not marrying LGBT people...

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Michelangelo Signorile: "Why Indiana Wasn't a Turning Point on LGBT
Rights -- and Why You Should Be Mad About It" (June 15, 2015)

"And please, spare me the argument that the laws won't hold up in court, which is often yet another symptom of victory blindness. First off, no one knows that, and after the Supreme Court's Hobby Lobby decision, we should all be concerned. Secondly, the goal of anti-LGBT conservatives is in fact to keep LGBT equality tied up in the courts as they gather their forces, raise more money and deny us our rights for as long as possible while they attempt to roll them back, just as they do on abortion rights, voting rights and other issues. So, yes, they had exactly the win they were seeking."

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Dr. Minor on Love, Dating, and Relationships
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     "A recent article in Business Insider entitled “Science Says Lasting Relationships Come Down to 2 Basic Traits” highlighted the four decades of study by psychologist John Gottman on traits that help relationships last. The article summarizes these as “kindness and generosity as opposed to contempt, criticism, and hostility.”
     Though those two words might make us think of certain actions that partners can perform, what’s behind the idea is actually what Gottman calls “a habit of mind.” Those who master their relationships are, he explains, habitually scanning the social environment as well as their partner for things they can appreciate and say thank you for.
     Close partnerships depend upon whether the partners are looking for the good, expecting the good, and appreciating the good in their partner’s expressions even when at first glance something could be taken negatively. They are ready to compliment, point out the positive, and say “thank you.”
     On the other hand, when two people get to the place where one or both partners is looking for things to criticize, or to prove a one-ups-manship so that they’re really acting out of their own insecurities and feelings of inferiority in comparison to their partner, the relationship is in trouble. And one person’s insecurity expressed in this way leads to further insecurity...."

Read more in Dr. Minor's latest column: "A Relationship Maker: The Mental Habit of Kindness"

LJWorld.comDr. Minor on July 13, 2014, again responds to a
Lawrence Journal World "Faith Forum" question:
"What Is Your Opinion on People Getting Ordained
Online to Perform Weddings?

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The Fairness Project is in the process of making available the handout materials from Dr. Minor's popular workshop: "Being an Activist Without Being a Victim." These materials are chosen because they encourage activist leadership to proceed from a progressive, healing model which contradicts the models of leadership found in most popular forms, models that are meant to keep the system in place rather than to make changes that support humanity, and result in burnout among leaders.

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